In April, I met an Italian man in Lisbon for his birthday. Little did I know our one romantic night would be the Bella Notte I dreamed would happen in Europe.
Bella Nolte in Lisbon- could it get more romantic a stage? No. But… but… he started the “date” open to a hook up and chickened out? Or you didn’t push his “door” open enough to get in? Or you decided it wasn’t heating up fast enough so you’re going for a second date? I subscribed hoping to find out If he didn’t get a birthday present on his birthday will he still be open to it on day two? I don’t think I would have pushed for penetrative sex that night but I would have pushed that door enough to see if he. Would accept a BJ just to cement my point. My position my… intent that it would t be difficult for him to get a lot more. If not now then soon and maybe repeatedly. But heh, that’s just mme.
Oh! I never got the hang of hook up culture. I couldn’t have sex with strangers “cause the end of sex I always knew them intimately! Even if we never saw
Each other again we had that
Closeness that reverberated into the future. For me making orgasms is always innocent sometimes I wonder if sex as a means of exploitation is totally attached to heterosexuality. They suffer from a nasty thing that comes with reproduction. When 10 minutes of orgasm making can force the two into a 20 year life changing commitment it gets dangerous fast. Not part of my world. I’m gay AND sterile so that makes the whole thing different for me. I hope you do a little more with those two characters. Theees more story there.
The moral for me is that I was able to have this romantic Bella Notte with him reminded me connection is more than just hook-up culture. It is build on simple moments that can be pure and innocent(ish).
Bella Nolte in Lisbon- could it get more romantic a stage? No. But… but… he started the “date” open to a hook up and chickened out? Or you didn’t push his “door” open enough to get in? Or you decided it wasn’t heating up fast enough so you’re going for a second date? I subscribed hoping to find out If he didn’t get a birthday present on his birthday will he still be open to it on day two? I don’t think I would have pushed for penetrative sex that night but I would have pushed that door enough to see if he. Would accept a BJ just to cement my point. My position my… intent that it would t be difficult for him to get a lot more. If not now then soon and maybe repeatedly. But heh, that’s just mme.
Oh! I never got the hang of hook up culture. I couldn’t have sex with strangers “cause the end of sex I always knew them intimately! Even if we never saw
Each other again we had that
Closeness that reverberated into the future. For me making orgasms is always innocent sometimes I wonder if sex as a means of exploitation is totally attached to heterosexuality. They suffer from a nasty thing that comes with reproduction. When 10 minutes of orgasm making can force the two into a 20 year life changing commitment it gets dangerous fast. Not part of my world. I’m gay AND sterile so that makes the whole thing different for me. I hope you do a little more with those two characters. Theees more story there.
Also not sure I’ll write about him again, but there will be more stories to come in '“Sex and the Seven Hills” in the future!
The moral for me is that I was able to have this romantic Bella Notte with him reminded me connection is more than just hook-up culture. It is build on simple moments that can be pure and innocent(ish).